So we’ve talked about various ways to pick up girls in our posts.
Today however we want to look at some super quick tips for picking up women that any guy can take on board and use without having to think too much about making any massive changes.
The idea is to adopt and use these tips and techniques so that you can see gradual change over a period of several days, to weeks. Almost like adopting a new belief every few days or week.
So make sure you take note of the advice below and start using the ones that make most sense to you.
NOTE: Some tips may seem counterintuitive but I promise you they will have a massive impact on your life.
Revamp your wardrobe
Women take notice in mens fashion. They love a man who can dress and find it incredibly attractive when they dress in season. Guys for some reason are scared of fashion, they think it’s gay or it’s for women, which is totally the wrong mindset.
Here’s what you need to do with your fashion:
- Buy some nice shoes (brown or black brogues, winkle pickers)
- Get a smart plain white and black shirt
- Pick up some slim fitting dark blue and black jeans
- Get some plain white/black v-neck t-shirts
- Buy some accessories… silver watch, bracelets/bangles, thin silver chain
Develop a grooming regime
Do you think women don’t notice if you’re groomed or not? They do. If your nails aren’t trimmed, you suffer from spots and your hair is dirty, women will notice! Here’s what you need to do:
- Trim your beard or shave. If you have a chin that sinks into your neck, you need some stubble to bring out your jaw line. If you have a strong jaw line, then you can shave properly.
- Clean your nails and trim them to a decent size. Not too long and not too short.
- Moisturise your hands, elbows and face.
- Clean your face with cleanser and wipe over with a toner.
- Use fake tan if you’re a pasty white boy.
- Ask a stylist what type of haircut will best suit your face and keep it that style.
- If you wear glasses, buy some contacts and stylish glasses.
Start exercising early
When you exercise, you not only feel great, but you look fresh. Your mind is more sharp and your metabolism is high, which means you burn more fat throughout the day. Here’s what you need to do:
- Get up between 5am and 7am. Run outside for around 20 minutes, jogging and sprinting.
- After working out, drink a green smoothie which will help you replenish the electrolytes that you lost and also fill your body with great nutrients.
- Switch up your workouts every other day so you don’t get bored and keep different muscles active.
Kit out your apartment
There’s nothing less sexy than a guy who has a bachelor apartment which is messy and smelly. When you bring a girl back, she needs to be comfortable, which means your apartment should be amazing. Here’s what you need to do:
- Make sure your bed sheets are fresh (change them once a week)
- Keep all your clothes, briefs, socks etc in the right place. A wardrobe and chest of draws.
- Clean your bathroom from top to bottom and leave some nice smelling candles in their. (Put the toilet seat down!)
- Clean all your plates, dust everywhere and spruce up the place so it looks visually appealing.
- Keep your condoms and lube right next the bed.
Get over your approach anxiety
This is a big one and it’s the single biggest killer for all men, which is why it’s on the list. You must get over your approach anxiety if you want to meet more women and remove any confidence issues you may have. Here’s what you need to do:
- Approach 3 women a day (in the morning, lunch time and in the evening)
- Every girl you approach, take the interaction further. Ask them for a number, flirt a little more and push your comfort zones in every chat.
Learn how to connect with women
Most men cannot connect with women, they find it incredibly difficult to chat to them. The reason you want to connect is because you help build trust with women, create intense rapport and make them feel an emotional gut level attraction towards you.
Here’s what you need to do:
- Improve your eye contact and only look away when she does
- Don’t agree with everything she says
- Stop asking boring and mundane questions
- Learn to listen more and ask the right questions
- Assume and lead, rather than guess and ask
Replace any old habits
Bad habits can really kill a mans game. So you need to notice what your doing that is slowly killing your game and stop those either in that moment, or gradually over time. Here’s a great way to do that:
- Notice your bad habits
- Think of a habit that can replace an old habit which will help you succeed much faster in life and with women
- Take note of habits that you’ve gotten rid of that were detrimental to your life so you can see how much you’ve changed as a person
Track your progress
Guys who are successful with women track their progress to see how far they have come with their game. So grab a notebook and start doing the following:
- Create a T Chart at the start of each day
- On the left, write as a heading “What I did right” and on the right write the heading “What I did wrong”
- Slowly phase out what you are doing wrong and work on what you are doing right. If you are getting results in a certain area, then you need to work hard on making that the best
Mix with like minded guys
Do you have friends which suck at picking up chicks? Well you need to get rid of them my friend, they are only going to hinder your success with women. Here’s what you need to do:
- Get in touch with guys that look like they are good with women
- Hang around with them and soak up as much as you can in the way of their natural game
- Do what they do and learn from their mistakes
- Ask them as many questions as you can about what they know when it comes to women
Become more sociable
If you’re an introverted guy then you NEED to get out of your comfort zone by pushing social boundaries. Get out to nightclubs, meet more people, be friendly and be the guy that everyone wants to meet. Here’s how:
- Go to at least two nightclubs a week, be friendly with the bouncer, talk to the club promoters and befriend those guys.
- Always go to clubs with girls and aim for hot ones
- Always introduce friends to friends and bring groups of people together
- Try and have a pre-party at your place before heading out for a big night. This way you get to know everyone
Get some f**k buddies
Friends with benefits are an amazing attribute to your game. Why you may ask? Because women can sense whether a guy is getting laid or not. If he is, then he will give off a different type of vibe than guys who aren’t getting any. Here’s what to do:
- Go out and aim to meet at least 10 new women a week
- Build a solid relationship with those girls
- Tell them after seeing them, that you’re not a serious guy and you like to have fun. This is code for “I’m happy to have sex, but no relationship”.
- Line up 3 to 5 women that you can have regular sex with, this is more than enough
Create regular goals
What is it you want from women? Do you want to be a player or a one woman man? Make sure you jot down your goals and what you want in life with women. Here’s how to do that:
- Take a piece of paper
- Write down your top 10 goals
- Pick one goal from that list that will greatly improve your love life
- Write 3 to 5 ways you can achieve that goal
- Focus on that one goal and work towards it daily
Change your environment
When you’re in the same environment, you don’t grow as a person. You become static and boring, nothing new is happening in your life. So work hard to create a life that is exciting and always changing.
Here’s what to do:
- Do whatever you can to earn more money
- Once you have money, buy or rent a place near a busy city area
- Force yourself to go out, meet new people and create a dynamic environment around you
So there you have it. 13 proven tips for picking up women.
That’s pretty much all you need to make a serious impact on your life. If you apply just a couple of these tips, you’ll see a big enough change in your game.
Here’s the funny thing also, when guys start learning about how to pick up girls, they read through garbage dating tips, they don’t apply even 1% of the advice they are given.
Just imagine if you make that 1% change, you’ll be meeting more chicks and getting laid… so always embrace change.